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Updated: Jul 27, 2023

The Fulfillment of Giving from the Heart: Understanding the Power of Genuine Generosity-

Learn what to do & what to surround yourself with and how to be supportive and supported

Different people can thrive with different kinds of support.

Supportiveness is something that is so beautiful and is both  a gift to give and receive. I am so grateful for the opportunities to give support in my life. You have potentially heard of this path to fulfillment. I have learned and found that giving or “lending” support is such an efficient way to increase, even achieve, fulfillment.

In a world often dominated by self-interest and material pursuits, the act of giving from the heart stands as a beacon of compassion, empathy, and genuine human connection. When we give selflessly, without expecting anything in return, we tap into a profound source of fulfillment that transcends mere material gains. This article explores the reasons why giving from the heart leads to fulfillment and sheds light on the emotional, psychological, and societal benefits of genuine generosity.

A Sense of Purpose and Meaning

Giving from the heart provides individuals with a profound sense of purpose and meaning in their lives. It allows them to contribute positively to the well-being of others and the greater community. This act of selflessness taps into our innate desire to make a difference and create a positive impact on the world around us. When we engage in meaningful acts of giving, we experience a deeper connection to our values and an increased sense of fulfillment in knowing that we are actively contributing to something greater than ourselves.

Cultivating Empathy and Compassion

Generosity enables individuals to cultivate empathy and compassion, as it requires understanding the needs and desires of others. By stepping outside of our own needs and focusing on the well-being of others, we build stronger connections and develop a deeper understanding of human experiences. This heightened sense of empathy fosters a profound sense of fulfillment as it allows us to connect with others on a more profound level and engenders a feeling of oneness with humanity.

Strengthening Social Bonds

Giving from the heart strengthens social bonds, fostering a greater sense of community and interconnectedness. As individuals give to others, they create a cycle of positivity and reciprocity that encourages others to do the same. The act of giving, whether through simple acts of kindness or more significant contributions, creates a ripple effect of positivity that can extend far beyond the initial act itself. This sense of interconnectedness and belonging nurtures feelings of fulfillment as it affirms our place in a supportive and caring social fabric.

Boosting Emotional Well-Being

Scientific studies have shown that genuine acts of giving trigger the release of "feel-good" neurochemicals in the brain, such as dopamine and oxytocin. These chemicals are associated with feelings of happiness, love, and trust, which contribute to improved emotional well-being. Giving from the heart reduces stress and anxiety levels, boosts mood, and increases overall life satisfaction. The emotional rewards of giving are powerful drivers of fulfillment, as they create a positive feedback loop that reinforces the inclination to give more.

Finding Gratitude in Abundance

Giving from the heart encourages individuals to appreciate the abundance in their lives. When we witness the impact of our generosity on others, it brings into focus the blessings and privileges we often take for granted. This realization fosters a sense of gratitude, grounding us in the present moment and reinforcing our commitment to give back to the community. Gratitude is a key component of fulfillment, as it shifts our perspective from what we lack to what we have and inspires a deep sense of contentment.

In a world that can sometimes feel overwhelming and disconnected, giving from the heart offers a pathway to fulfillment that transcends individual desires and material gains. When we engage in genuine acts of generosity, we find purpose, cultivate empathy, strengthen social bonds, boost emotional well-being, and discover gratitude in abundance. Ultimately, the fulfillment derived from giving from the heart lies not only in the positive impact it has on others but in the transformational journey it ignites within ourselves. So let us embrace the power of genuine generosity and enrich our lives by sharing our hearts and extending a helping hand to those in need.

Here are some ways you can support the people in your life and green flags for any relationship or potential relationship:

  1. See the good in everyone and in situations.

  2. Practice gratitude.

  3. Look for peoples strengths.

  4. Give compliments.

  5. Acknowledge how much you appreciate the people around you. We can call them each week, send messages, be peaceful around them, bring value to the relationship.

  6. Take care of the person. Take care of their feelings, take care of the energy you bring to the relationship.

  7. Validate the people you are supporting’s feelings. Ways to validate someones feelings are to be present- give them your attention, be patient, show care, witnessing without your own filters, avoiding any biases you might have. Let them have their own experience. Sometimes people can have difficulty understanding things, or learning to do something right. Offer them patience. People have a basic need to be seen.

  8. Pay attention to peoples issues, show them that you care. Just be there. When someone you know is in need, sometimes it’s just good to be there. Sit with them. Talk. Help out if you can.  Sometimes, all we need is someone to acknowledge the existence of our suffering to feel better. We want someone to try to understand our feelings even if they don’t necessarily agree with them. 

  9. Show support by listening and being supportive.

  10. Develop trust by honoring your word, by keeping your promises.

  11. Be kind to one another. Smile, be friendly.

  12. Practice compassion and empathy.

  13. Release judgement. Leave your opinions at the door. Take time to simply be the witness. Most people are equipped to deal with the challenges presented to them, each persons journey is unique. My simply being present and bringing your presence may be the extra support that someone can use.

  14. Comfort others.

  15. Demonstrate respect. Practice active listening.

  16. Be involved in the solution, take action and support them to take action towards their goals. If someone in grief seems to be lost and doesn’t know what to do, help them do something. It could be making funeral arrangements, it could be making a doctor’s appointment, it could be making phone calls. Avoid fixing, allow them take action too, because it helps in the healing process.

  17. Support people in need of basic necessities : Contribute to your community. Be respectful and friendly.

  18. Be creative with your actions. If someone is sick or overwhelmed you could help with everyday things like cooking and cleaning or running errands is also appreciated. You could create a care package for them.

  19. Offer practical help: You may ask “how can I help?” Offer specific and practical things, like walking the dog, getting groceries, or simply staying with them for a while. 

  20. Send out good thoughts, reach out- touch someones day.

  21. Take care of yourself, do the daily personal work to get yourself into that good feeling place aka the zone, or connection to Source

  22. Connect people with resources. I recognize that there are many answers to issues, there are many paths to the heart some would say. If you have seen a good source you can share it.

  23. Set boundaries and set and example. Many people have yet to learn this skill. Boundaries make things clear and easy. For example, if you know that you don’t have the capacity to answer late night or even any distress calls or that you aren’t the person to turn to in an emergency, be clear about that, the other person will just adjust and move on.

  24. Help someone get active. A person in your life who wants to get healthy could use an offer to go walking or running together, to join a gym together. Once they get started, it can have profound effects.

  25. Value time and energy given to you. Reciprocate. By giving we receive.

Remember giving from the heart always feels good. That is a huge truth. Try it & keep spreading the love. I imagine you will feel better in the process. Let me know how you go

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